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Why People Don’t Like You- for Real!

It is Not Your Fault

So you want to know why people don’t like you? Surprise! It has nothing to do with you! It has as everything to do with what the person has done to you! This means, people make agreements or follow social rules and then they break them and don’t say anything about it. Then they stay away from you, because they don’t want to hurt you again. Typical example: Brother and sister get along well. One day brother steals sisters allowance and doesn’t tell her. Later he is hating her, critical of everything she does and generally doesn’t like her. But this is because he is saving her from his bad act and pulling away from her, to not hurt her again. People are social and they want to keep you safe from the harmful acts they do, so they go away from the people they hurt!

People are Good and Social

The real reason people don't like you.  Man is basically good and saves himself from you by going away. Man helping another mad up a cliff.
Man is basically good. He will save people from himself, if he has harmed someone.

A discovery by L. Ron Hubbard was that people are basically good. What that means is people want to save you from the bad things they have done, so they go away from you, then they make up reasons why they don’t like you. You have done nothing, it is them moving away from you because of the harmful act they have committed.

Time and time again people talk endlessly about how could the person they loved leave them? Searching for any little thing they might have done that may have made the other person go away. Fact is, the person walking away has done something bad that the person sitting there trying to figure it all out doesn’t know. People are good and they withhold themselves from others because they don’t want to hurt others. Watch this video that perfectly explains it, http://bit.ly/WhyPeopleDoNotLikeYou

The Big Secret

Instead of being vague I will give you an example: I was in a deep discussion with a friend. He sat there telling me, “I just don’t have any energy lately, I just feel down, my spirits are not high. I don’t feel motivated. My wife and I are not happy together any more. I feel like going back to my old habit of escaping and doing drugs.”

Up to this point, His life was going great, he had a beautiful baby boy and a loving, dutiful wife, his career was going up and up. So what was happening to him, what was causing him to feel so rotten?

After quite a bit of searching, discussion and talking to him trying to figure it out. I came across a huge discovery! He had been cheating with this other woman and was keeping it a secret from everyone, of course, especially from his wife. Take a look at what that act of out ethics or transgression did to his life…

silhouette of alone man on a bed looking out a window.

The Downward Spiral

The transgression or moral rule breaking doesn’t just affect his relationship with his wife. Rule breaking, out ethics or moral code transgressions are like a wildfire burning up and touching all areas of your life. ( I interject this here, good morals to live by and good choices to make, www.TheWayToHappiness.org.)

From the moment he stepped outside the agreement of his marriage vows, broke his vow to his wife, his world turned grey. All his energy and forward drive in life left him. The secret, the bad act he did was like putting on an invisible straight jacket. He just started to withhold himself and hold himself back from all areas and people in his life. Social people have a built in mechanism to protect people from their bad acts, they are afraid of hurting them again, so they leave. My friend was even thinking of reverting back to drugs to stop himself, lower his power and reach even more.

Then when you withhold yourself you start a downward spiral. You just don’t influence things like you did before. You become a big vacuum or suction inwards, pulling back into yourself, a withdrawal from life. Zero moving forward. You are not handling things, not looking at that area or person you damaged, because you feel bad, instead you are pulling back and your world starts to cave in.

Feel Bad but You Don’t Know Why?

Does this sound familiar? Have you ever felt low and you don’t know why? I’m going to share with you how to dig yourself out of a hole. How to get your spirits lifted again so you feel bright and energetic and ready to take on the world. There are actual exact steps you take to dig yourself out of the caved-in crumbling world that is falling all around you. That is what technology is, exact steps you take to do anything. This is technology located in L. Ron Hubbard’s Scientology Ethics that gets you relieved of your transgressions.

In Conclusion

Why go beating yourself up saying, “what did I do to make that person not like me?” It is them! Not you. Live your life in confidence. Live your life happy. You did nothing wrong.

Help the people that are going away from you if you can, if they will listen to you or even get close to you, but help them by giving them this technology, http://bit.ly/IntegrityAndHonesty. You or others do not have to be burdened by the things you have done wrong in your past. Get rid of onerous burdens with step by step actions to erase the guilt and heaviness you feel. I have tons more technology to address and uplift any area of your life. Have you witnessed people pulling away from life and loved ones? Tell me have you ever experienced that feeling of hopeless, depression or lowness in life? Have you ever felt like that and you didn’t know why? Let me know.

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Who to trust, Bulldog trusted his owner, now the dog is in child swing

Who to Trust? Read for Success…

Do you Trust Backstabbers?

Careful about who you trust, guy smiles in friends face, same time has knife to friends back.

When you know who to choose as a friend, partner or mate your life can be a lot easier. Learning about types of personalities is key to your success in life. Your friends can make or break you. Learn who to trust!

In this brief essay I will let you know where to go to get the knowledge you need to choose the best kind of friends and associates. There is a FREE online class you can take to learn about the full range of personality types, http://bit.ly/TypesOfPeople .

The Different Emotional Levels

I’m not here to teach you all the different personality types, and there are several. By all means, you can judge for yourself and find out what level you exist on here, http:// bit.ly/TypesOfPeople

Emoji emotional levels: happy, mad, sad, fear
Which one are you?

Instead I’m here to guide you to the information that will save you from loosing all your money on that big business deal by trusting the wrong guy or gal. Also, I’m here to save you from heartache and misery by directing and guiding you to get the technology that will save your sanity in picking the right partner.

Surprise surprise, human behavior can be predicted! With the advancement of science so came with it the ability to codify the various levels of personality. Mr. L Ron Hubbard has given us the means to understand the different tones or emotional levels of people.

Yes, people experience different emotions all through their day, but there is for the most part one chronic level they exist on in life.

Should You Trust the Fake or Covert Hostility Person?

I would say the most dangerous emotional level to trust would be the covert hostility or fake person.

Specifically, I will give you examples so you will understand what I’m talking about…

green business suit man smiles in the face of yellow business suit man. In the shadow reflects the hidden evil intention of the fake, green suit man.
Careful of the hidden, shadow actions of the Covert Hostility person

Everyone loves to talk about the Backstabbing person. Notably, The Fake person, The person that smiles to your face and stabs you in the back when your not looking. Likewise, you can call it passive-aggressive or whatever you like, but you have probably seen them and experienced them in your life. For instance, the slimy guy or girl that gives you a backhanded comment at every turn. They really exist! The official category or emotional level of this person is called Covert Hostility or just Covert.

Similarly, The fake happy, covert people may appear like this for example: the clothes they wear don’t fit well, their clothes are old and worn out, dirty with stains on them or holes in them. Also, their body is unhealthy especially with neurological and hormone problems. They have very loose floppy joints and muscles, they might have strong odors coming from them. Their material possessions like their car, clothes, computer, phone, house, place where they live are: worn out, run down, falling apart, not working, missing parts, shabby, mismatched, not put together nicely. Things they posses are dirty, not cared for, in bad condition and repair.

Furthermore, take a look at what they talk about: all they want to talk about is gossip, negative comments, rumors, alarming news, bad news, the latest scandal. Their words sound sweet then leave a bitter after taste. You think about what they just said and realize that was not a complement or nice statement. They mostly exist in fear, eye contact is minimal, they are always nervously looking around. They do not have much ethics, meaning they are sneaky and do things that do not follow the rules of society and hope they don’t get caught.

Who Should You Trust?

On the other hand, if you start trusting this type of fake or Covert person then it is just about as equal to taking a gun and shooting yourself. Because their whole motive is to do you in, but in a manner so you will never suspect it. You can trust these people if you don’t much care about your life or living or want to kill yourself. These Covert Hostility people are fake happy, not really happy.

What is the solution?

Go with Happy

Trust the true happy people.  Group of all ethnic backgrounds happy people.

Your best bet is to go with happy… Trust a happy person every time. Trust a person in the emotional level of Contented, Mild Interest, Conservatism, Strong Interest, Cheerfulness and you will not go wrong.

How can you tell if people are truly happy? Best indicator I like to look at is how do they look in all different physical ways.

To illustrate, happy people are well dressed, look nice and take care of themselves, these are the ones to trust! People at the happy level are neat and orderly, their breath does not stink, they don’t have strong body odor, they are well groomed. They look put together, professional, they are up-standing citizens judging by their actions. Chiefly their muscles and joints are toned, strong and can hold a certain position, they are not weak, floppy or sagging at that level. Their material possessions are in pretty good condition, they take care of their car, house or clothes. Things are fairly clean and organized and in good repair.

They will talk to you about ordinary things, day to day things. Some happy people can be very interested in things and supportive of your goals and dreams, they are great. Genuine happy people can keep a conversation at a good, positive level. For the most part, they follow the morals of society the best they can. The people surrounding them, their friends are usually pretty happy and have good morale. If you want to learn more about how to be happy go here, https://LiveHappyForYou.com.

In Conclusion

In addition, the fake happy, covert hostility person is an emotional level I know well. I used to be at that level. To be sure, I got rid of misery, hate, loathing and many other negative emotions with a scientific technology called Dianetics. Furthermore, I wanted to take everyone down with me at that covert level, until I discovered the one thing that reversed it all. That was the technology in the book, Dianetics. Now I am happy. You can trust happy, positive people to be, for the most part, supportive of you and not hurt you.

There are many many other emotional levels a person can exist at. I just covered the most flagrant or dangerous to trust.

Who have you trusted and it all turned into a big mess? And most importantly, what will you do differently this time? Are you ready to avoid people who want to tear you down and make you fail in life? Do not hesitate to fully inform yourself with the technology I have provided you.

Watch Who to Trust. People’s personalities explained.
How to resolve conflicts happy friends

How to Resolve Conflicts

The Conflict

Bomb made a hole in the ceiling.
Bomb made a hole in the ceiling

A hole in the ceiling, sun spraying in on the cement debris splattered all over the tile floor, a huge shell from a weapon that can decimate targets from miles away, impaled on a coffee table right next to a cell phone. In other words, that was just another day of survival in Yemen. My friend sent me the picture. He told me, the bomb interrupted his workout in the gym he was using. In speaking about this, I said, yes, I have solutions on how to resolve conflicts.

I thought, “that’s it! I have to do something!!!” Saying something is imperative. I will do what I can to stop the fighting. Living in insulated, comfy, cozy USA you can get complacent and not notice the horrors going on in the world. Hearing that incident from my friend, it was just too close to me. Furthermore, He gives me tales of how in Yemen, his city is torn apart, one side fighting another. It used to take a half an hour for him to get across town. Now it takes 5 hours on perilous and steep one way mountain roads to go around and get to the other side. Actually, I do have solutions on how to resolve conflicts.

How to Resolve the Conflicts

There is technology I know about on how to stop fighting. Why am I keeping it to myself??? I will share it. The datum “it takes two to make a fight” has been with us since the beginning of time. We all have been told that, yet it does nothing to make things better or make the fighting stop. L. Ron Hubbard made a discovery: WHILE IT IS COMMONLY BELIEVED TO TAKE TWO TO MAKE A FIGHT, A THIRD PARTY MUST EXIST AND MUST DEVELOP IT FOR ACTUAL CONFLICT TO OCCUR. What does that mean? To clarify, make sure you have the definition of third party 1. a person or group besides the two primarily involved in a situation, especially in a dispute.

Granted, real life examples abound. Look into your past and see if you can relate to these situations. Further, to resolve conflicts, will you be able to spot the third person that was creating the fight?

The Third Party Law is How to Resolve Conflicts

how to resolve conflicts, two brothers fighting with Mom who started the conflict.
Mom who is the person behind the two boys fighting

To illustrate, two grown brothers Ed and Sam, who should have loved each other well, instead hated each other. I witnessed their acrimonious animosity while growing up, between my dad and his brother. They barely tolerated each other and in the secret of their own homes plotted and planed on how they could tear each other down. Who was the third party making them constant enemies? Their mother! Going between both sons in secret and at different times in their early years growing up. Telling the older son, Ed, that he is better than the younger son, Sam. Then she would tell the younger son Sam that he isn’t good enough, doesn’t measure up to his brother Ed. Also she was feeding Sam a steady stream of falsehoods, saying how Ed doesn’t like him. Pitting the two against each other, possibly unknowingly or maybe not.

Truly, such a shame, all those frosty and barely civil holidays could have been so different. They could have been happy. This is long gone, ancient history. Lives and energy wasted on doing each other in. In fact, they just didn’t know how to resolve conflicts or the third party law. It was their Mom, packing hurtful messages between them, making them enemies.

Families in Factions

wife and husband fighting, finding secret person in the background is how to resolve conflicts.
The hidden third party mother-in-law caused the divorce

In particular, How many families, husbands and wives, sibling, relatives can you think of that are torn apart by that secret, hidden person, the third party. The person who goes between the two people and makes them enemies to each other. When in actual fact families should support and love one another, be in good relationships with each other. That secret hidden person packs stories between the two mates and drives them apart.

For instance, the classic mother-in-law scenario, the instigator of split marriages. She goes to the daughter telling the daughter how bad the husband is. Then conveniently blabs, at a different time, while the daughter isn’t there, to the husband. The mother-in-law points out to her daughters husband about how her daughter doesn’t really think the husband is doing that great and that he should make more money. Also adding in for good measure that the wife, her daughter, is discontent with him and thinks she could have found a better guy. Arguments ensue, bitterness breaks them apart. Another marriage goes down the drain, thanks to the one who seems invisible, the one who no one noticed packing tails between the married couple.

Look Beyond the Enemies

I give you the solution of how to resolve conflicts, http://bit.ly/SecretToStopFight. There is a third party or person that creates the fight between the two people. Do you believe it? It is too easy to brush it aside as fantastic and not believable. I implore you to gather all your mental stamina together to confront and carefully examine the two sides fighting. Investigate and find who is the common person that they are both talking to!

cartoon of two guys fighting.  Secret emoji between them is how to resolve the conflict
Find the hidden person secretly talking to both sides causing the conflict.

Harness Hatred, Direct it toward Good

Wars abound. Solutions need to abound as well. Here is the solution for how to resolve conflicts that will stop the fighting: A THIRD PARTY MUST BE PRESENT AND UNKNOWN IN EVERY QUARREL FOR A CONFLICT TO EXIST. In addition, click the link, the underline, do the free class to become an expert in resolving conflicts. Be brave and find the one person or third party that is going between the people and making them fight. The conflict recedes when the evidence is presented to the people who are fighting.

Middle East War Zone

two army men loading a missile rocket gun
Wars and fighting abound in lots of countries

I have Muslim friends in the Middle East. My question to them is always why do Muslim brothers fight their Muslim brothers? For instance, I have been told by friends, that in some countries, like in South Sudan, the fighting is like tribes fighting tribes. Even in Afghanistan I’m told by my friends that it is one group fighting another group. Brothers fighting brothers. Mind blowing astronomical wastes of energy attacking one another, when we could be putting all that effort into something like making the lives of people better, with more industry and prosperity! Also, same in Yemen, the fighting abounds. To say nothing of Syria which is a total war zone disaster. I talked to one guy in Syria who was so depressed and suicidal from all the fighting.

All I can say is the answer is here! FOR A QUARREL TO OCCUR, AN UNKNOWN THIRD PARTY MUST BE ACTIVE IN PRODUCING IT BETWEEN TWO POTENTIAL OPPONENTS. Click the link, bring peace to the world. In fact, chanting about peace is great, but now you can actually do something about it.

Who is Perfect?

Christian crusades anyone? How about kings of the past or Game of Thrones fighting? No one group or person is perfect and has never gotten in an argument. For this reason, now there is technology and tools to clear it up and live a more happy life. When you see a person or group tearing each other apart, you don’t have to sit there like a bump on log. To be sure, use these tools provided here to disarm mega watt hatred.

In conclusion

heart shaped paradise earth, peace to the world text.
Let’s bring real peace to the world, use the Third Party technology

We all chant, “Peace and Happiness to the world.” Who will really bring it? I dare you to apply this new discovery of the Third Party Law and see for yourself if it works. I’m no journalist, political junkie or war aficionado. I respect all religions and people. I’m just a concerned friend and citizen of the world taking a stand. I have answers and I’m going to share them. I contribute something of value. You can too! Investigate and assimilate the information laid out here and share it.

Explanation of How to Resolve Conflicts. Watch and Learn.

Author Bio:

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