A hole in the ceiling, sun spraying in on the cement debris splattered all over the tile floor, a huge shell from a weapon that can decimate targets from miles away, impaled on a coffee table right next to a cell phone. In other words, that was just another day of survival in Yemen. My friend sent me the picture. He told me, the bomb interrupted his workout in the gym he was using. In speaking about this, I said, yes, I have solutions on how to resolve conflicts.
I thought, “that’s it! I have to do something!!!” Saying something is imperative. I will do what I can to stop the fighting. Living in insulated, comfy, cozy USA you can get complacent and not notice the horrors going on in the world. Hearing that incident from my friend, it was just too close to me. Furthermore, He gives me tales of how in Yemen, his city is torn apart, one side fighting another. It used to take a half an hour for him to get across town. Now it takes 5 hours on perilous and steep one way mountain roads to go around and get to the other side. Actually, I do have solutions on how to resolve conflicts.
How to Resolve the Conflicts
There is technology I know about on how to stop fighting. Why am I keeping it to myself??? I will share it. The datum “it takes two to make a fight” has been with us since the beginning of time. We all have been told that, yet it does nothing to make things better or make the fighting stop. L. Ron Hubbard made a discovery: WHILE IT IS COMMONLY BELIEVED TO TAKE TWO TO MAKE A FIGHT, A THIRD PARTY MUST EXIST AND MUST DEVELOP IT FOR ACTUAL CONFLICT TO OCCUR. What does that mean? To clarify, make sure you have the definition of third party 1. a person or group besides the two primarily involved in a situation, especially in a dispute.
Granted, real life examples abound. Look into your past and see if you can relate to these situations. Further, to resolve conflicts, will you be able to spot the third person that was creating the fight?
The Third Party Law is How to Resolve Conflicts
To illustrate, two grown brothers Ed and Sam, who should have loved each other well, instead hated each other. I witnessed their acrimonious animosity while growing up, between my dad and his brother. They barely tolerated each other and in the secret of their own homes plotted and planed on how they could tear each other down. Who was the third party making them constant enemies? Their mother! Going between both sons in secret and at different times in their early years growing up. Telling the older son, Ed, that he is better than the younger son, Sam. Then she would tell the younger son Sam that he isn’t good enough, doesn’t measure up to his brother Ed. Also she was feeding Sam a steady stream of falsehoods, saying how Ed doesn’t like him. Pitting the two against each other, possibly unknowingly or maybe not.
Truly, such a shame, all those frosty and barely civil holidays could have been so different. They could have been happy. This is long gone, ancient history. Lives and energy wasted on doing each other in. In fact, they just didn’t know how to resolve conflicts or the third party law. It was their Mom, packing hurtful messages between them, making them enemies.
Families in Factions
In particular, How many families, husbands and wives, sibling, relatives can you think of that are torn apart by that secret, hidden person, the third party. The person who goes between the two people and makes them enemies to each other. When in actual fact families should support and love one another, be in good relationships with each other. That secret hidden person packs stories between the two mates and drives them apart.
For instance, the classic mother-in-law scenario, the instigator of split marriages. She goes to the daughter telling the daughter how bad the husband is. Then conveniently blabs, at a different time, while the daughter isn’t there, to the husband. The mother-in-law points out to her daughters husband about how her daughter doesn’t really think the husband is doing that great and that he should make more money. Also adding in for good measure that the wife, her daughter, is discontent with him and thinks she could have found a better guy. Arguments ensue, bitterness breaks them apart. Another marriage goes down the drain, thanks to the one who seems invisible, the one who no one noticed packing tails between the married couple.
Look Beyond the Enemies
I give you the solution of how to resolve conflicts, http://bit.ly/SecretToStopFight. There is a third party or person that creates the fight between the two people. Do you believe it? It is too easy to brush it aside as fantastic and not believable. I implore you to gather all your mental stamina together to confront and carefully examine the two sides fighting. Investigate and find who is the common person that they are both talking to!
Harness Hatred, Direct it toward Good
Wars abound. Solutions need to abound as well. Here is the solution for how to resolve conflicts that will stop the fighting: A THIRD PARTY MUST BE PRESENT AND UNKNOWN IN EVERY QUARREL FOR A CONFLICT TO EXIST. In addition, click the link, the underline, do the free class to become an expert in resolving conflicts. Be brave and find the one person or third party that is going between the people and making them fight. The conflict recedes when the evidence is presented to the people who are fighting.
Middle East War Zone
I have Muslim friends in the Middle East. My question to them is always why do Muslim brothers fight their Muslim brothers? For instance, I have been told by friends, that in some countries, like in South Sudan, the fighting is like tribes fighting tribes. Even in Afghanistan I’m told by my friends that it is one group fighting another group. Brothers fighting brothers. Mind blowing astronomical wastes of energy attacking one another, when we could be putting all that effort into something like making the lives of people better, with more industry and prosperity! Also, same in Yemen, the fighting abounds. To say nothing of Syria which is a total war zone disaster. I talked to one guy in Syria who was so depressed and suicidal from all the fighting.
All I can say is the answer is here! FOR A QUARREL TO OCCUR, AN UNKNOWN THIRD PARTY MUST BE ACTIVE IN PRODUCING IT BETWEEN TWO POTENTIAL OPPONENTS. Click the link, bring peace to the world. In fact, chanting about peace is great, but now you can actually do something about it.
Who is Perfect?
Christian crusades anyone? How about kings of the past or Game of Thrones fighting? No one group or person is perfect and has never gotten in an argument. For this reason, now there is technology and tools to clear it up and live a more happy life. When you see a person or group tearing each other apart, you don’t have to sit there like a bump on log. To be sure, use these tools provided here to disarm mega watt hatred.
We all chant, “Peace to the world.” Who will really bring it? I dare you to apply this new discovery of the Third Party Law and see for yourself if it works. I’m no journalist, political junkie or war aficionado. I respect all religions and people. I’m just a concerned friend and citizen of the world taking a stand. I have answers and I’m going to share them. I contribute something of value. You can too! Investigate and assimilate the information laid out here and share it.