It is Not Your Fault
So you want to know why people don’t like you? Surprise! It has nothing to do with you! It has as everything to do with what the person has done to you! This means, people make agreements or follow social rules and then they break them and don’t say anything about it. Then they stay away from you, because they don’t want to hurt you again. Typical example: Brother and sister get along well. One day brother steals sisters allowance and doesn’t tell her. Later he is hating her, critical of everything she does and generally doesn’t like her. But this is because he is saving her from his bad act and pulling away from her, to not hurt her again. People are social and they want to keep you safe from the harmful acts they do, so they go away from the people they hurt!
People are Good and Social
A discovery by L. Ron Hubbard was that people are basically good. What that means is people want to save you from the bad things they have done, so they go away from you, then they make up reasons why they don’t like you. You have done nothing, it is them moving away from you because of the harmful act they have committed.
Time and time again people talk endlessly about how could the person they loved leave them? Searching for any little thing they might have done that may have made the other person go away. Fact is, the person walking away has done something bad that the person sitting there trying to figure it all out doesn’t know. People are good and they withhold themselves from others because they don’t want to hurt others. Watch this video that perfectly explains it, http://bit.ly/WhyPeopleDoNotLikeYou
The Big Secret
Instead of being vague I will give you an example: I was in a deep discussion with a friend. He sat there telling me, “I just don’t have any energy lately, I just feel down, my spirits are not high. I don’t feel motivated. My wife and I are not happy together any more. I feel like going back to my old habit of escaping and doing drugs.”
Up to this point, His life was going great, he had a beautiful baby boy and a loving, dutiful wife, his career was going up and up. So what was happening to him, what was causing him to feel so rotten?
After quite a bit of searching, discussion and talking to him trying to figure it out. I came across a huge discovery! He had been cheating with this other woman and was keeping it a secret from everyone, of course, especially from his wife. Take a look at what that act of out ethics or transgression did to his life…
The Downward Spiral
The transgression or moral rule breaking doesn’t just affect his relationship with his wife. Rule breaking, out ethics or moral code transgressions are like a wildfire burning up and touching all areas of your life. ( I interject this here, good morals to live by and good choices to make, www.TheWayToHappiness.org.)
From the moment he stepped outside the agreement of his marriage vows, broke his vow to his wife, his world turned grey. All his energy and forward drive in life left him. The secret, the bad act he did was like putting on an invisible straight jacket. He just started to withhold himself and hold himself back from all areas and people in his life. Social people have a built in mechanism to protect people from their bad acts, they are afraid of hurting them again, so they leave. My friend was even thinking of reverting back to drugs to stop himself, lower his power and reach even more.
Then when you withhold yourself you start a downward spiral. You just don’t influence things like you did before. You become a big vacuum or suction inwards, pulling back into yourself, a withdrawal from life. Zero moving forward. You are not handling things, not looking at that area or person you damaged, because you feel bad, instead you are pulling back and your world starts to cave in.
Feel Bad but You Don’t Know Why?
Does this sound familiar? Have you ever felt low and you don’t know why? I’m going to share with you how to dig yourself out of a hole. How to get your spirits lifted again so you feel bright and energetic and ready to take on the world. There are actual exact steps you take to dig yourself out of the caved-in crumbling world that is falling all around you. That is what technology is, exact steps you take to do anything. This is technology located in L. Ron Hubbard’s Scientology Ethics that gets you relieved of your transgressions.
Why go beating yourself up saying, “what did I do to make that person not like me?” It is them! Not you. Live your life in confidence. Live your life happy. You did nothing wrong.
Help the people that are going away from you if you can, if they will listen to you or even get close to you, but help them by giving them this technology, http://bit.ly/IntegrityAndHonesty. You or others do not have to be burdened by the things you have done wrong in your past. Get rid of onerous burdens with step by step actions to erase the guilt and heaviness you feel. I have tons more technology to address and uplift any area of your life. Have you witnessed people pulling away from life and loved ones? Tell me have you ever experienced that feeling of hopeless, depression or lowness in life? Have you ever felt like that and you didn’t know why? Let me know.