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kitten loves you. Why people don't like you- the real reason

Why People Don’t Like You- for Real!

It is Not Your Fault

So you want to know why people don’t like you? Surprise! It has nothing to do with you! It has as everything to do with what the person has done to you! This means, people make agreements or follow social rules and then they break them and don’t say anything about it. Then they stay away from you, because they don’t want to hurt you again. Typical example: Brother and sister get along well. One day brother steals sisters allowance and doesn’t tell her. Later he is hating her, critical of everything she does and generally doesn’t like her. But this is because he is saving her from his bad act and pulling away from her, to not hurt her again. People are social and they want to keep you safe from the harmful acts they do, so they go away from the people they hurt!

People are Good and Social

The real reason people don't like you.  Man is basically good and saves himself from you by going away. Man helping another mad up a cliff.
Man is basically good. He will save people from himself, if he has harmed someone.

A discovery by L. Ron Hubbard was that people are basically good. What that means is people want to save you from the bad things they have done, so they go away from you, then they make up reasons why they don’t like you. You have done nothing, it is them moving away from you because of the harmful act they have committed.

Time and time again people talk endlessly about how could the person they loved leave them? Searching for any little thing they might have done that may have made the other person go away. Fact is, the person walking away has done something bad that the person sitting there trying to figure it all out doesn’t know. People are good and they withhold themselves from others because they don’t want to hurt others. Watch this video that perfectly explains it, http://bit.ly/WhyPeopleDoNotLikeYou

The Big Secret

Instead of being vague I will give you an example: I was in a deep discussion with a friend. He sat there telling me, “I just don’t have any energy lately, I just feel down, my spirits are not high. I don’t feel motivated. My wife and I are not happy together any more. I feel like going back to my old habit of escaping and doing drugs.”

Up to this point, His life was going great, he had a beautiful baby boy and a loving, dutiful wife, his career was going up and up. So what was happening to him, what was causing him to feel so rotten?

After quite a bit of searching, discussion and talking to him trying to figure it out. I came across a huge discovery! He had been cheating with this other woman and was keeping it a secret from everyone, of course, especially from his wife. Take a look at what that act of out ethics or transgression did to his life…

silhouette of alone man on a bed looking out a window.

The Downward Spiral

The transgression or moral rule breaking doesn’t just affect his relationship with his wife. Rule breaking, out ethics or moral code transgressions are like a wildfire burning up and touching all areas of your life. ( I interject this here, good morals to live by and good choices to make, www.TheWayToHappiness.org.)

From the moment he stepped outside the agreement of his marriage vows, broke his vow to his wife, his world turned grey. All his energy and forward drive in life left him. The secret, the bad act he did was like putting on an invisible straight jacket. He just started to withhold himself and hold himself back from all areas and people in his life. Social people have a built in mechanism to protect people from their bad acts, they are afraid of hurting them again, so they leave. My friend was even thinking of reverting back to drugs to stop himself, lower his power and reach even more.

Then when you withhold yourself you start a downward spiral. You just don’t influence things like you did before. You become a big vacuum or suction inwards, pulling back into yourself, a withdrawal from life. Zero moving forward. You are not handling things, not looking at that area or person you damaged, because you feel bad, instead you are pulling back and your world starts to cave in.

Feel Bad but You Don’t Know Why?

Does this sound familiar? Have you ever felt low and you don’t know why? I’m going to share with you how to dig yourself out of a hole. How to get your spirits lifted again so you feel bright and energetic and ready to take on the world. There are actual exact steps you take to dig yourself out of the caved-in crumbling world that is falling all around you. That is what technology is, exact steps you take to do anything. This is technology located in L. Ron Hubbard’s Scientology Ethics that gets you relieved of your transgressions.

In Conclusion

Why go beating yourself up saying, “what did I do to make that person not like me?” It is them! Not you. Live your life in confidence. Live your life happy. You did nothing wrong.

Help the people that are going away from you if you can, if they will listen to you or even get close to you, but help them by giving them this technology, http://bit.ly/IntegrityAndHonesty. You or others do not have to be burdened by the things you have done wrong in your past. Get rid of onerous burdens with step by step actions to erase the guilt and heaviness you feel. I have tons more technology to address and uplift any area of your life. Have you witnessed people pulling away from life and loved ones? Tell me have you ever experienced that feeling of hopeless, depression or lowness in life? Have you ever felt like that and you didn’t know why? Let me know.

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How to resolve conflicts happy friends

How to Resolve Conflicts

The Conflict

Bomb made a hole in the ceiling.
Bomb made a hole in the ceiling

A hole in the ceiling, sun spraying in on the cement debris splattered all over the tile floor, a huge shell from a weapon that can decimate targets from miles away, impaled on a coffee table right next to a cell phone. In other words, that was just another day of survival in Yemen. My friend sent me the picture. He told me, the bomb interrupted his workout in the gym he was using. In speaking about this, I said, yes, I have solutions on how to resolve conflicts.

I thought, “that’s it! I have to do something!!!” Saying something is imperative. I will do what I can to stop the fighting. Living in insulated, comfy, cozy USA you can get complacent and not notice the horrors going on in the world. Hearing that incident from my friend, it was just too close to me. Furthermore, He gives me tales of how in Yemen, his city is torn apart, one side fighting another. It used to take a half an hour for him to get across town. Now it takes 5 hours on perilous and steep one way mountain roads to go around and get to the other side. Actually, I do have solutions on how to resolve conflicts.

How to Resolve the Conflicts

There is technology I know about on how to stop fighting. Why am I keeping it to myself??? I will share it. The datum “it takes two to make a fight” has been with us since the beginning of time. We all have been told that, yet it does nothing to make things better or make the fighting stop. L. Ron Hubbard made a discovery: WHILE IT IS COMMONLY BELIEVED TO TAKE TWO TO MAKE A FIGHT, A THIRD PARTY MUST EXIST AND MUST DEVELOP IT FOR ACTUAL CONFLICT TO OCCUR. What does that mean? To clarify, make sure you have the definition of third party 1. a person or group besides the two primarily involved in a situation, especially in a dispute.

Granted, real life examples abound. Look into your past and see if you can relate to these situations. Further, to resolve conflicts, will you be able to spot the third person that was creating the fight?

The Third Party Law is How to Resolve Conflicts

how to resolve conflicts, two brothers fighting with Mom who started the conflict.
Mom who is the person behind the two boys fighting

To illustrate, two grown brothers Ed and Sam, who should have loved each other well, instead hated each other. I witnessed their acrimonious animosity while growing up, between my dad and his brother. They barely tolerated each other and in the secret of their own homes plotted and planed on how they could tear each other down. Who was the third party making them constant enemies? Their mother! Going between both sons in secret and at different times in their early years growing up. Telling the older son, Ed, that he is better than the younger son, Sam. Then she would tell the younger son Sam that he isn’t good enough, doesn’t measure up to his brother Ed. Also she was feeding Sam a steady stream of falsehoods, saying how Ed doesn’t like him. Pitting the two against each other, possibly unknowingly or maybe not.

Truly, such a shame, all those frosty and barely civil holidays could have been so different. They could have been happy. This is long gone, ancient history. Lives and energy wasted on doing each other in. In fact, they just didn’t know how to resolve conflicts or the third party law. It was their Mom, packing hurtful messages between them, making them enemies.

Families in Factions

wife and husband fighting, finding secret person in the background is how to resolve conflicts.
The hidden third party mother-in-law caused the divorce

In particular, How many families, husbands and wives, sibling, relatives can you think of that are torn apart by that secret, hidden person, the third party. The person who goes between the two people and makes them enemies to each other. When in actual fact families should support and love one another, be in good relationships with each other. That secret hidden person packs stories between the two mates and drives them apart.

For instance, the classic mother-in-law scenario, the instigator of split marriages. She goes to the daughter telling the daughter how bad the husband is. Then conveniently blabs, at a different time, while the daughter isn’t there, to the husband. The mother-in-law points out to her daughters husband about how her daughter doesn’t really think the husband is doing that great and that he should make more money. Also adding in for good measure that the wife, her daughter, is discontent with him and thinks she could have found a better guy. Arguments ensue, bitterness breaks them apart. Another marriage goes down the drain, thanks to the one who seems invisible, the one who no one noticed packing tails between the married couple.

Look Beyond the Enemies

I give you the solution of how to resolve conflicts, http://bit.ly/SecretToStopFight. There is a third party or person that creates the fight between the two people. Do you believe it? It is too easy to brush it aside as fantastic and not believable. I implore you to gather all your mental stamina together to confront and carefully examine the two sides fighting. Investigate and find who is the common person that they are both talking to!

cartoon of two guys fighting.  Secret emoji between them is how to resolve the conflict
Find the hidden person secretly talking to both sides causing the conflict.

Harness Hatred, Direct it toward Good

Wars abound. Solutions need to abound as well. Here is the solution for how to resolve conflicts that will stop the fighting: A THIRD PARTY MUST BE PRESENT AND UNKNOWN IN EVERY QUARREL FOR A CONFLICT TO EXIST. In addition, click the link, the underline, do the free class to become an expert in resolving conflicts. Be brave and find the one person or third party that is going between the people and making them fight. The conflict recedes when the evidence is presented to the people who are fighting.

Middle East War Zone

two army men loading a missile rocket gun
Wars and fighting abound in lots of countries

I have Muslim friends in the Middle East. My question to them is always why do Muslim brothers fight their Muslim brothers? For instance, I have been told by friends, that in some countries, like in South Sudan, the fighting is like tribes fighting tribes. Even in Afghanistan I’m told by my friends that it is one group fighting another group. Brothers fighting brothers. Mind blowing astronomical wastes of energy attacking one another, when we could be putting all that effort into something like making the lives of people better, with more industry and prosperity! Also, same in Yemen, the fighting abounds. To say nothing of Syria which is a total war zone disaster. I talked to one guy in Syria who was so depressed and suicidal from all the fighting.

All I can say is the answer is here! FOR A QUARREL TO OCCUR, AN UNKNOWN THIRD PARTY MUST BE ACTIVE IN PRODUCING IT BETWEEN TWO POTENTIAL OPPONENTS. Click the link, bring peace to the world. In fact, chanting about peace is great, but now you can actually do something about it.

Who is Perfect?

Christian crusades anyone? How about kings of the past or Game of Thrones fighting? No one group or person is perfect and has never gotten in an argument. For this reason, now there is technology and tools to clear it up and live a more happy life. When you see a person or group tearing each other apart, you don’t have to sit there like a bump on log. To be sure, use these tools provided here to disarm mega watt hatred.

In conclusion

heart shaped paradise earth, peace to the world text.
Let’s bring real peace to the world, use the Third Party technology

We all chant, “Peace to the world.” Who will really bring it? I dare you to apply this new discovery of the Third Party Law and see for yourself if it works. I’m no journalist, political junkie or war aficionado. I respect all religions and people. I’m just a concerned friend and citizen of the world taking a stand. I have answers and I’m going to share them. I contribute something of value. You can too! Investigate and assimilate the information laid out here and share it.

Explanation of How to Resolve Conflicts. Watch and Learn.